Trying to find answers!!!……Its all me at Grey cells ……. Unfinished thoughts

THIS IS ATTITUDE : YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK !

Posted in Belief, Communication, Expectation, Great thinking, life by nagaje on April 6, 2010

If an egg is broken by an outside force, Life Ends.. If it is broken from inside Life Begins.. reat things in life always begin from inside.

Its better to lose your ego to the one you love… Than to lose the one you love … B’coz of Ego!!

 Why do we have so many temples , If God is evrywhere?? A wise man said Air is everywhre , still we need FAN to feel it… 

When you trust someone Trust him completely without any doubt!!at the end you would get one of the two… Either a lesson for life OR a very good person for life !!

 Life is not about the people who act true to your face!! Its  about the people who remain true behind your back  …

Soldier :  SIR, We are surrounded from all sides by enemies..

Major: EXCELLENT! We can attack in any direction..

 The  worst in life is  “ATTACHMENT” It hurts when you lose it.The  best thing in life is “LONELINESS” Bcoz it teaches you everything and when you lose it you get EVERYTHING.

 You never CONQUER a mountain . You can stand on the summit for few moments : then the wind blows your footsteps away 

I Hear & I forget!! I see and I remember!! I do & I understand!! 

 The Greatest waste in the world is Th difference between Whar we are & wha we could become!! 

 What matters most is how you see yourself

 

Cheerio……………

 

 

 

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NICE STORY!! Law of the Garbage Truck

Posted in Belief, bengaluru, Communication, Great thinking, Hope, India, life, Thoughts, Tour by nagaje on February 2, 2010

One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us.

My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us.

My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, ‘Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!’ This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, ‘The Law of the Garbage Truck.’

 He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.

As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they will dump it on you. Don’t take it personally.

Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don’t take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life’s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets.

so … Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don’t. Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it! Have a blessed, garbage-free day!

 

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Are you agitated – Calm your mind….

Posted in Belief, Expectation, Great thinking, Journey, life, Thoughts by nagaje on December 15, 2009

Once Buddha was walking from one town to another town with a few of his followers. While they were traveling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Buddha told one of his disciples, “I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there.  The disciple walked up to the lake.

When he reached it, he noticed that right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake.As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, “How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink!”  

So he came back and told Buddha, “The water in there is very muddy. I don’t think it is fit to drink.” After about half an hour, again  Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake and get him some water to drink.

The disciple obediently went back to the lake.  This time too he found that the lake was muddy. He returned and informed Buddha about the same.

After sometime, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back.The disciple reached the lake to find the lake absolutely clean and clear with pure water in it. The mud had settled down and the water above it looked fit to be had. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Buddha.

Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said,” See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be…. and the mud settled down on its own – and you got clear water.  Your mind is also like that! When it is disturbed, just let it be.

Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don’t have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless.

He said, “It is effortless.”  Having ‘Peace of Mind’ is not a strenuous job; it is an effortless process!

 
You need not bother OR get angry on the cause of disturbance OR show your agitation on anything else Or do anything about it at all….. Just acknowledge and LET it BE.

It will be EFFORTLESS !! 

Cheeeriooo

Its Difficult — But True!!

Posted in Belief, Communication, Expectation, Giving back, Great thinking, Introspection, Love, Thoughts by nagaje on December 2, 2009

“Apologizing does not mean that you are wrong and the other one is right…It simply means that you value the relationship much more than your ego …”

So Go on… Say ” Sorry” … You gain & that means a lot to you!!

Cheers.

Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway!!!!!

Posted in Belief, Book, Books, Great thinking, Hope, sucess, Thank you..., Thoughts by nagaje on November 9, 2009

Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers is a book that helps people to accept fears and live their life the way they want to live it.  So that they can get away from pain, paralysis & depression… start living with power, energy, and enthusiasm.

First of all we need to meet our fears – “Fear is holding you back from experiencing life the way you want to” then categorize it as per three levels of fear

 1) Level One Fears: Fear that permeates many areas of our life (Those that “Happen” – aging, becoming disabled, etc. and those that “Require Action” – changing careers, loosing weight, etc.)

2) Level Two Fears: These fears have to do with our “inner state of mind” rather than our exterior situations – rejection, success, failure…

 3) Level Three Fears: I can’t handle it! (At the bottom of every one of our fears is simply the fear that we can’t handle whatever life may bring us).

 Secondly we need to realize Fears never go away –  Basic truths of fear are…

 Truth #1 – The fear will never go away as long as you continue to grow.

 Truth #2 – The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out and do it.

Truth #3 – The only way to feel better about yourself is to go out…and do it! Make deposits into our self-confidence bank.

 Truth #4 – Not only am I going to experience fear whenever I’m on unfamiliar territory, but so is everyone else.

 Truth #5 – Pushing through the fear is less frightening than living with the underlying fear that come from a feeling of helplessness.

  Some quick checklist for all …………

  • We don’t blame others for anything we are being, doing, having, or feeling
  • We do not beat up on ourselves
  • We are aware of when we are not taking responsibility so we can change
  • We are handling the “chatterbox” in our head
  • We are aware of the payoff that is keeping us stuck
  • We are setting goals and working towards them
  • We understand that we have choices in any given situation
  • When we learn to handle our fear, we move from a position of pain to one of power!
  • If you are positive you attract positive people.
  • Seek out for mentors & friends
  • Strive for healthy assertiveness..
  • Appreciate others when they are supporting you & help you grow.
  • Be your own best friend.
  • Learn to trust that we will survive, no matter what happens.
  • Create richness for yourself that nothing can ever take away your basic sense of completeness.
  • Consciously accept what is happening in your life.
  • Tune your subconscious mind
  • Best of all Be Patient

 Last but not least!!  Be the kind of person you would want to surround yourself with.

  • Give Away Thanks
  • Give Away Information
  • Give Away Praise
  • Give Away Time
  • Give Away Money
  • Give Away Love

Cheeeeioooooooo………….

Raise Your Self-esteem

Posted in Belief, Dreams, Expectation, Great thinking, Hope, Introspection, me, Mutation series!!, Thoughts by nagaje on November 5, 2009

Feelings of low self-esteem may be triggered by being treated poorly by someone else recently or in the past, or by a person’s own judgments of him or herself. This is normal.

 However, low self-esteem is a constant companion for too many people, especially those who experience depression, anxiety, phobias, psychosis, delusional thinking, or who have an illness or a disability.

 To help relieve these feelings, let your friends know what you are going through. Have a good cry if you can. Do things to relax. Specially tell yourself — “I am a very special, unique, and valuable person. I deserve to feel good about myself.”

 Self-esteem, Depression and Other Illnesses

 Before you begin to consider strategies and activities to help raise your self-esteem, it is important to remember that low self-esteem may be due to depression. Low self-esteem is a symptom of depression. To make things even more complicated, the depression may be a symptom of some other illness. 

Things You Can Do Right Away—Every Day—to Raise Your Self-esteem

 Pay attention to your own needs and wants.

Take very good care of yourself.

Eat healthy foods and avoid junk foods

Exercise.

Do personal hygiene tasks that make you feel better about yourself

Have a physical examination every year to make sure you are in good  health.

Plan fun activities for yourself. Learn new things every day.

Take time to do things you enjoy.

Get something done that you have been putting off.

Do things that make use of your own special talents and abilities.

Dress in clothes that make you feel good about yourself.

Give yourself rewards.

Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself

Make your living space a place that honors the person you are.

Display items that you find attractive or that remind you of your achievements or of special times or people in your life.

Make your meals a special time.

Take advantage of opportunities to learn something new or improve your skills.

Begin doing those things that you know will make you feel better about yourself

Do something nice for another person

Make it a point to treat yourself well every day

Cheerioooooooo

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Restore Positive energy in You

Posted in Get Set GO!!, Great thinking, life, Love, Thoughts, Uncategorized by nagaje on October 20, 2009

Self healing is the process to restoring Positive energy balance, Especially on days when you feel overwhelmed by multiple demands on your time, or when you feel drained by people and places .

Here are a few  simple tips which help boosting Positive energy:

A Quick-fix  especially for demanding days. Take 10 Deep Breaths. Make them as slow and deep as you can.  Do it as often as you like, anywhere and anytime. Everytime you exhale,  feel your body relaxing further.

Feel the earth beneath your feet …  If you can walk barefoot in the garden or the park, it would be great.

Rub your palms together and feel the vibrations. Gently place them over your closed eyes. for few seconds as long as you feel the warmth.

 Affirmations work very well to raise our energy and to promote feelings of self confidence and joy.

Add a few tablespoons of sea salt or common salt to your bath water. Its another simple technique to pep your tingling sensations on Skin.

Wear white or pastel coloured clothes. They  resonate at a higher frequency They give a serene feeling.

Above all….. Be Positive. .. Feel Positive … Life’s very Short after all to Fill in Negative thoughts.

 

Compilations!!

Cheeerioooooo…….

101 – Affirmations By RichGrad

Posted in Belief, Dreams, Expectation, Great thinking, Hope, life, sucess, Thoughts, Uncategorized by nagaje on September 26, 2009

What are affirmations??

Every thought you think every word you say is an affirmation All of our self-talk or inner dialogue is a stream of affirmations. We are continually affirming subconsciously with our words and thoughts and this flow of affirmations is creating our life experience in every moment.

Positive Affirmations!!

Positive affirmations and positive thinking techniques can help develop a powerful and positive attitude to life; which is an essential element in life success and good health. With this power you can turn failure around into success and take success and drive it to a whole new level. Your positive attitude is the fuel for your success.

Some of the  positive affirmations you can use in your daily life

 

Affirmations for Healthy Weight and Body Image:

– Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.

– My body has its own wisdom and I trust that wisdom completely.

– My body is simply a projection of my beliefs about myself.

– I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.

– I choose to see the divine perfection in every cell of my body.

– As I love myself, I allow others to love me too.

– Flaws are transformed by love and acceptance.

– Today I choose to honor my beauty, my strength and my uniqueness.

– I love the way I feel when I take good care of myself.

– Today my own well-being is my top priority.

Affirmations for Self-Confidence and Self-Belief:

– Fear is only a feeling; it cannot hold me back.

– I know that I can master anything if I do it enough times.

– Today I am willing to fail in order to succeed.

– I believe that I have the strength to make my dreams come true.

– I’m going to relax and have fun with this, no matter what the outcome may be.

– I’m proud of myself for even daring to try; many people won’t even do that!

– Today I put my full trust in my inner guidance.

– I grow in strength with every forward step I take.

– I release my hesitation and make room for victory!

– With a solid plan and a belief in myself, there’s nothing I can’t do.

Affirmations for Abundance and Prosperity:

– I open to the flow of great abundance in all areas of my life.

– I always have more than enough of everything I need.

– Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!

– Today I expand my awareness of the abundance all around me.

– I allow the universe to bless me in surprising and joyful ways.

– My grateful heart is a magnet that attracts more of everything I desire.

– Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.

– I exude passion, purpose and prosperity.

– I am always led to the people who need what I have to offer.

– As my commitment to help others grows, so does my wealth.

– My day is filled with limitless potential in joy, abundance and love.

Affirmations for Life Purpose:

– The better I know myself, the clearer my purpose becomes.

– My unique skills and talents can make a profound difference in the world.

– Today I follow my heart and discover my destiny.

– I am meant to do great things.

– I am limited only by my vision of what is possible.

– My purpose is to develop and share the best parts of myself with others.

– Today I present my love, passion, talent and joy as a gift to the world.

– I need not know the entire journey in order to take one step.

– I fulfill my life purpose by starting here, right now.

– My life purpose can be whatever I decide to make it.

Affirmations for Inner Peace:

– All is well, right here, right now.

– Peace begins with a conscious choice.

– Today I embrace simplicity, peace and solace.

– A peaceful heart makes for a peaceful life.

– I trust the universe to deliver my highest good in every situation.

– By becoming peace, I create peace in every experience.

– I am filled with the light of love, peace and joy.

– Peace comes when I let go of trying to control every tiny detail.

– Where peace dwells, fear cannot.

– Today my mission is to surrender and release.

Affirmations for Opportunity:

– Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.

– Opportunities are everywhere, if I choose to see them.

– I boldly act on great opportunities when I see them.

– My intuition leads me to the most lucrative opportunities.

– An opportunity is simply a possibility until I act on it.

– Some of the best opportunities are made, not found.

– Today I see each moment as a new opportunity to express my greatness.

– I expand my awareness of the hidden potential in each experience.

– Let each of my experiences today be a gateway to something even better.

– Each decision I make creates new opportunities.

Affirmations for Love:

– I am ready for a healthy, loving relationship.

– All of my relationships are meaningful and fulfilling.

– As I share my love with others the universe mirrors love back to me.

– I see everyone I meet as a soul mate.

– I trust the universe to know the type of partner who is perfect for me.

– Today I release fear and open my heart to true love.

– I am grateful for the people in my life.

– I am the perfect partner for my perfect partner.

– I deserve a loving, healthy relationship.

– I deserve to be loved and I allow myself to be loved.

Affirmations for Healing:

– I am strong and healthy.

– My energy and vitality are increasing every day.

– I open to the natural flow of wellness now.

– My inner guidance leads me to the right healing modalities for me.

– Abundant health and wellness are my birthright.

– Thank you for my strength, my health and my vitality.

– I am feeling stronger and better now.

– I love taking good care of myself.

– Today nurturing myself is my highest priority.

– Thank you for the opportunity to balance my mind, body and spirit.

Affirmations for Inner Clarity:

– Today I awaken to my higher wisdom.

– My inner voice guides me in every moment.

– I am centered, calm and clear.

– I always know the right actions to achieve my goals.

– When I know where I’m going, getting there is a cinch!

– Today I am completely tuned in to my inner wisdom.

– Harmony is always a sign that I am balanced from within.

– Thank you for showing me the way to my dreams.

– I trust my feelings and insights.

– I am detached and open to divine guidance.

Affirmations for Self-Love:

– I am filled with light, love and peace.

– I treat myself with kindness and respect.

– I don’t have to be perfect; I just have to be me.

– I give myself permission to shine.

– I honor the best parts of myself and share them with others.

– I’m proud of all I have accomplished.

– Today I give myself permission to be greater than my fears.

– I love myself no matter what.

– I am my own best friend and cheerleader.

– Thank you for the qualities, traits and talents that make me so unique

 

I look forward to hearing about all the positive changes you’re about to experience.

 

Cheerio………………

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The Power of your Sub-Conscious mind – By Joseph Murphy

Posted in Book, Books, Great thinking, life, Thoughts by nagaje on September 25, 2009

Simple excerpt from his Book……

1. The treasure house is within you. Look within for the answer to your heart’s desire.

2. The great secret possessed by the great men of all ages was their ability to contact and release the powers of their subconscious mind. You can do the same.

3. Your subconscious has the answer to all problems. If you suggest to your subconscious prior to sleep, “I want to get up at 6 A.M.,” it will awaken you at that exact time.

4. Your subconscious mind is the builder of your body and can heal you. Lull yourself to sleep every night with the idea of perfect health, and your subconscious, being your faithful servant, will obey you.

5. Every thought is a cause, and every condition is an effect.

6. If you want to write a book, write a wonderful play, give a better talk to your audience, convey the idea lovingly and feelingly to your subconscious mind, and it will respond accordingly.

7. You are like a captain navigating a ship. He must give the right orders, and likewise, you must give the right orders (thoughts and images) to your subconscious mind, which controls and governs all your experiences.

8. Never use the terms, “I can’t afford it” or “I can’t do this.” Your subconscious mind takes you at your word and sees to it that you do not have the money or the ability to do what you want to do. Affirm, “I can do all things through the power of my subconscious mind.”

9. The law of life is the law of belief. A belief is a thought in your mind. Do not believe in things to harm or hurt you. Believe in the power of your subconscious to heal, inspire, strengthen, and prosper you. According to your belief is it done unto you.

10. Change your thoughts, and you change your destiny.

Be sure that you think on whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things 

Cheerio…….

Detachment !! Love more ??

Posted in Belief, Expectation, Great thinking, life, Love, Relation, Thoughts by nagaje on August 31, 2009
Detachment—like love, it’s a state of being …Detachment is about the soul leaving everything behind and ‘journeying’ to its Lord.
 
One of the reasons I took to the concept of detachment like a duck to water was that I was compelled by the argument that,

When you  are in love—with a person or a thing—is that it becomes the centre of our inner universe. .Over a period of time that person’s  world began to stop revolving around you. This causes friction because that person  will  still the centre of your universe.  Its an universal phenomenon In some way or other, it will change. You are sure to get into depression, you become desperate you feel like running away from everything .. Irony of the tragedy is that you know that is not the answer and is not possible.

Now take a different look at the situation.. nothing will ever change because you want it to change. You need to change …….. nothing in the world asked you to make a person center of our universe that is today making you desolate. Set yourself free… in fact set the person free rather than placing him/ her in the center of your universe binding or compelling them to be there.

Your identity will change your outlook will change the same person can become everything of your life now without confining to the space of your universe. you now become two independent but vastly interconnected people 🙂

There is a saying  “Live free of love, for its very peace is anguish; Its beginning is pain, its end is death.”

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Thus  detachment is freedom. Freedom from the bonds of deluding and unrealistic expectations in relationships. To be detached is to let go, of that  anxiety-driven desperation demolishes you frantically want to preserve.

 
One should enjoy the beauty relationship without being caught in its possessive grasp. Possessiveness is a poison : whereas detachment lets you stand by yourself & still be an integral part  relationship.
 
 
It is more about giving space & having your own to explore. By being detached we can get out of that prison if false sense of protection and enjoy the limitless avenue that you can be proud of and soar into unbound horizon . Detachment by itself does not mean separation its just that its more care , faith & courage to an enriched wholesome relation.
 
 
Cheers.
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