Trying to find answers!!!……Its all me at Grey cells ……. Unfinished thoughts

Dating a Married woman!! don’t say you were not warned!!

Posted in Divorce !!!, Friend !!!, Insecurity!, Journey, life, Losing..Love!, Love, Marriage, Men, Relation, Woman by nagaje on May 6, 2010

For the man that is looking for a married woman to have some fun with, he needs to be careful.  He may find himself involved with a woman he only wants to have fun with, and end up with so much more. Or, he may end up falling in love with a woman who will always love another man.

 Married women are looking for something to spice up their lives.  They have fallen into the rut of the day to day regime of their marriages, and are bored, neglected, lacking a sex life, seeking thrills, Or she’s just plain lonely and needs to be held, which often leading to intimacy and an affair.

 And then there’s the woman who knows she’s being cheated upon and in her hurt and anger she feels it’s payback time. And so decides to hit back in the same measure.

 If a man can steal another woman away from her husband, even if it’s only for a few hours, he will have felt like he conquered a battle.  And for a man, there is no greater reward.

 Women on the other hand are lacking emotional bonds and are looking for someone that will make them feel pretty, loved, adored, and worshipped even.

 Men will seek out any relationship, married or otherwise, with the initial intent of biological release.  They will connect with women they have chemistry with, are attracted to, and ultimately, want a sexual affair with.  For some men, these relationships evolve into an emotional bond over time. 

 For women however, the emotions come first, the sex comes second.

 Married women that are cheating simply are not clear on what they want, and so they will tell the man exactly what they want to hear. Why? Because women are experts at knowing what men want emotionally, and will give them exactly that, every time, until it is too late.

 You be honest to yourself and your wife before anything happens. You took a vow to love honour and cherish. It sounds like you didn’t understand some of that. Falling in love with someone while you are in a committed relationship only points to one thing and that is that your not committed enough.

 Dating a married woman will open up a can of worms for you is an emotional understatement

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Wife is always right !!!!!!!!!!**

Posted in 498a, Divorce !!!, wife is always right by nagaje on May 20, 2009

To prove my point even the Indian supreme court has said it. read the news here. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/India/Wife-is-always-right-says-SC/articleshow/4553002.cms

People – do not mess with women and their rights !!!!!! The women have arrived on this planet.

Some men having trouble with Indian laws and you can read it here: http://www.498a.org/ and http://mynation.net/ and all they did was fight with their wives.

Separating!!

Posted in Divorce !!!, life, Marriage, Relation by nagaje on April 12, 2007

It’s  the saddest part of any realtionship…. realtionships are bigger responsibilities and loads of commitment when I say relationship I meant the closest to heart kinds … you know….Parents, spouse, Children, Siblings, Love of life etc.

Divorce is such s simple word but holds loads of heartache attached with it.. People always have attched it to marriage .. and marital separation… But I would say…….No ….. 

I was one among few people who was not shocked to read the news snippet that said a child said he will divorce his parents… Divorce as per my knowledge is the separation  that goes with Love … and Love is relation you hold with dear ones….Separation happens for various reasons …

Can you stop loving  someone??? 😦

On threshold of separation People often say ..I love you in my own way but ….. I am not sure I love you!! anymore?? Ironic !!! No really not!! Tht’s one of the major reasons why people are divorced ! So Love just stops …..is it?? Why does any relation that starts with so much of fire end like that.. Looks like my belief of ” Love comes as a season and goes as a season fits well ….. ” What makes this happen??

 When you really fall in love I guess you are just happy with falling in love …. you do not look into the compatiability .. u do not spend time in understandng your would be life partner.. you do not want to go into those small habits of the other person which can be nagging for life time… you try to look at only the positive things and try to blow them out of proportion and then  jump into relation .. but the days start getting darker as you pull on the relationships that’s for sure a shocker…

Some of them happen on mutual consent.. where both the persons involved are mature enough and are sure that the relation is not going to work .. and pull apart with good feelings treasured… its only when the need for trudging along for various reasons creep into any relationship the things start turning sour… so much that you start fighting … mud slinging.. finding faults … talk endlessly about the mistakes commited in the relation…. Boss that is surely going to mar the face of relationship beyond repair and even if it is ripping you apart only best alternative is to SEPARATE!!!

I do have heard of lot relations that are FINE after separation!!  Hmmm… thts a thought one should seriously look into what makes the post separation meetings get-togethers best??? May be that habitual..part of the human craving starts looking again at what was getting missed all along and one small oppurtunity is like heaven……you love !!! But I seriously do not think it will work unless the people involved change honestly at that which again is a marathon task!!

 I have already said!! Relationships are painful… separation is  more So!!!!