Trying to find answers!!!……Its all me at Grey cells ……. Unfinished thoughts

Place I have fallen in Love with :-)

Posted in Dreams, Places, Tour by nagaje on May 23, 2007

Saint mary’s Island!!!  

Probably this is the third time I have visited this place and and it felt  like home coming!! No doubt that Mangalore can be extemes any day… hottest summer days… pouring non stop  rainy days……  salty   🙂 breezy winds… and god knows whats winter at mangalore I have not visited …………  

[ Food for thought… I can make my next trip in winter to fill this gap 😉 ] 


Udupi is a small district with ethereal beauty of lord Krishan..Oh yes …Its the same Udupi of “Udupi Hotels” world wide famous 😉 ….. It’s about  from Mangalore and 10 Kms from this place is  “Malpe”  Basically a fisherman’s heaven [ You got to adjoust to the  “fish ” it just smells Fishy 🙂 ]  Malpe also has one of the oldest tile making establishments!!… What’s more Malpe is a natural port!!!



 Malpe…great picnic spot with the long streching endless gloden virgin beach…. Gently swaying palm trees……. enthralling gurgle of sea…….. clear blue sky…. makes it more enchanting !!!!!

Seven nautical miles from Malpe beach is a delightful getaway…. raechable by a simple ferry-ride across sea ” Saint mary’s  Island “ ….. its simply heaven by beauty……. not weather…… Though the authorities do not allow to land on the Island when there are heavy winds across the sea but worth a visit and believe me it beckons you with those salty sweet breeze ………..  every time to go back….

Saint mary’s Island

On the whole Island you find massive , natural, volcanic, hexagonal shaped pillar like rocks grouped together in various numbers and sizes…….. They are a feast to a nature lovers eyes…

Rocky port

The sea between these rocky Islands and the shore is a very safe place for anchorage even in the rough stormy  weather….

Believe me either that you will not want to return back from there or keep returning back to that heaven always


Change…… It’s the spice of Life :-(

Posted in life, Mutation series!! by nagaje on May 11, 2007

Mutation ….… talks about change of the DNA sequence within a gene resulting in the creation of a new character or trait.           

I am certainly not talking about the Genetic change here but the change brought by so many pressing key factors of Life…. I have always saluted the quote “ Why does Life keep teaching me lessons, I have no desire to learn “……….NOW…. That’s Life .. Can anyone DARE???              

Life’s the Biggest challenge to mankind !!!! Ironically Life is what we live rgt?? …. Or is it like???               

“ Life is what happens to us when we sit brooding about the past or busy planning for the future”     

Why do people change in their basic behavior or Why does it become a culture shock one fine day ……in future??   

Lemm’e put it in simple words ………. People find it too spunky when they catch a girl blowing smoke rings in a Bar along with a large mug to go with……very few enjoy the scene and few snigger……

But Y do People change????? Any clues???? I have none !! Not that I have’nt changed!!! At times I have felt I have changed beyond recognition that my image in the mirror looks like a stranger to me!! 

There are lot of Events , Incidents , accidents happen in life … and depending on the Impact it has on a person’s cognition people change !!!

I have been brought up in a very safe and secure cuddly environment that even going out in the night was as good as a nightmare for me!! but over a period of time when I realised that there is such a long path of life that is tread alone!!  I started walking all alone and Yes I ended up being strong mentally to take care of all the deamons that were  inside me!!! Now that’s the learning I got … Can you tell that is the change!!Nopes .. Boss it is  Life’s learning!!! Some people Accept the change! Some Revolt….. Can you help it???

Once anybody understands that life is a constant change!! We start accepting change….. I fail to understand why we can not take people as they change too…  or at times we want them to change to suit our requirements!! rather funny rgt???Best of all I will tell you that you spend ages trying to change someone and when they change you do not like them anymore… Now That’s tragedy of life……..

Just another stupid thought series!!!! 

Hopes Die hard!! Anybody can help too!!!!

Posted in Expectation, Hope, life, Relation by nagaje on May 7, 2007

There was this person with extreme illness lying on bed on seventh  floor of the hospital building in a  special  room, the bed was  close to the window …                                                                          

But because of the massive construction he was not  able to see  anything outside the window  except the wall  on the opposite  building and the water  pipes  that  ran  along the  length of the whitewashed wall and was  streaked with the fungus that must have grown for years  


The whole of the room had that dull and grey look about it that would kill a dead body too let alone refresh an ailing patient …..                                                                      

Day was filled with the doctors and nurses visiting the patient and trying to reassure the relatives it will be alright he will recover only he needs to be reassured …. he needs  love to live…….. 



But being the best of  rainy  days the room was turning more grey and gloom and that  could not liven up the patient at any cost he was lying on bed watching it pour for hours …..                                                                   


Everybody was worried how to bring fun into his life  so that he can be made to live but nature had its own way of making things better showing its supremacy over the mankind ……                                                                            


There was a little climber along side of the  water pipe that looked like   yet another mud streak that filled the wall like graffiti ….                                                                                          


One morning was made beautiful as this thin climber sprang into life  with two small  leaflets  brownish green in color…. so vibrant … full of life.. 



And it  caught the patient’s eye and he was all joy with beauty  of those  tiny  representatives of life in front of him … He looked At its growth all day and his joy knew no bounds when he found that leaves were adding up day by day he watched  their growth as elixir to his own life ……………                                                                         


Doctors were surprised at the improvement of his health and the relatives were all thanks to this small little plant outside the window by the side of his bed… that gave him happiness…..                                                                         


Again nature had its own designs that night storm broke loose and their was heavy downpour but not as heavy as the patient’s heart which sank  by every passing minute as the wind blew whistles shaking the little plant and as hours passed by he witnessed the wind withering one leaf after another and his heart sank so low  that everybody  could see him deteriorate in front of their eyes….                                                                           


All the relatives prayed the rain would stop or it would stop felling of the leaves so that the patient was not so disturbed by it as he was due for an surgery next day that would decide his life!!!        


With the heavy eyelids battling against sleep the patient tried to sllep hoping that one single leaf that was still  on to the climber will be their when he wakes up….. he could still hear the wind blowing harshly across and that left a small tear drop in his eyes even as he slept……


Next morning was as vibrant with the clean fresh air..and bright and sunny.. as the patient opened his eyes first thing he saw was the leaf on the opposite wall and the bright green color it was shining…. he was alll happy and set to ge to the operation theater and with good signs of health….. 

Only small smile crossed the lips of a relative ….. who spent half the night in the pouring rain… to draw  and paint the bright greeen leaf attached to the climber on the opposite wall that brought smile to the patient’s face……that his Small deed with loads of good intention had after all paid off!! that brought HOPE into the patient’s face!!!!

Big story I heard in my child hood ….. great lesson that can be learnt!! Another dull evening in my life that gave me so much of time ……. 🙂  Enjoy!!!


Can you go back….. to Old Love????

Posted in Going Back, life, Love, Relation, Woman by nagaje on May 3, 2007

Old Flame??? Quite handy?? Isn’t?? ever wondered why people go back to their old love / spouse long aftr they get separated??

Oh.. Yeah we do  get to read lot of celebrity news making a big hue and cry about how they find their way back to old love!! But…..It does happen with our lives too!!  The common man!!

There is always this special lure of the lost 🙂 love ……  You know what I feel the craving for what you already had and lost remains true for all those little material assets of life too…

 People get attached with things and losing is really hurtful…. Some people try to get things back more with vengence rather with the love for it…… I would say this applies to love more so than with anything else you try to get things over or try and get better things…

but a love lost??? !!!!  ……Grrrrr… People can not digest to see their ” once upon a time love ” with anyone else… Any day…

Just imagine if you happen to bump into old GF/ BF in the shopping mall with someone…ELSE…….. Don’t you get wildest of  thoughts that somehow breaks them apart…

Quite natural… Its just that we need to understand that it was one day ours and we can not have anybody have it today!! …Just the human instinct of  envy that makes us thinkl so…

Just another stupid thought for today!!! but a sore thought!! I know ……….. But Mind is supposed to be a wagaband!! rgt?????