Lost In Bangalore?? – Get directions!!

Lost In Bangalore?

Don’t worry now!!!

You are just an SMS away!!

There is an SMS-based location search and direction finding service that provides directions to people with or without Smart phones to any location in Bangalore.

SMS  the place  you are looking for to 9008890088

Example 1: FROM Mekri circle TO ESI Hospital
Example 2: INOX
Example 3: SBI atm NEAR M G Road

You will get a reply SMS with the exact location and the shortest directions to reach the place from a prominent landmark.

Standard SMS rates as per your plan apply

You can Win……… too …… Impresses Anybody….

 

Most of the times Reading a book gives focus on thoughts that are there at the back of our minds … which we generally fail to word….. But as you read through … It sounds Awesome….

Some sentences that impressed me as I read… ” You Can Win ” By  Shiv Khera…. I will log it for myself….

When you go digging for an ounce of GOLD … you have to move TONS of DIRT … but .. When you go digging you do not look at dirt, you go looking for the GOLD

Nagative people always Criticize

paralysis by analysis is one worst disease

Count your blessings, not your troubles.

Learn to Learn

You need to become seeker of GOOD

Foolish people have strange kind of confidance that comes with ignorance.

Past glory and education does not count much… we need to shrpen our Axe.

Persons character is not only judged by the company they keep but also the company they avoid.

Using Profanity is lack of vocabulary, self-control & Discipline.

You need to keep your mind on What you want , not on what you don’t want.

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 Not ‘The End’ as I have not finished the book ….. so ….. Will edit this post ….. as my journey through the book continues  ……

 

Cheerio

Hmmm…. Not all want to be happy!!

How many of us Love Complaining…..??? Most of us… U know !! It’s most easy to say ….  

Hey.. I have a running Nose!!….. Now … what can your audience do to your Nose unless he’s a doctor.. …yeah??? 

But we all love to make silly complaints all along the day …. No matter who we are with.. right????  

Can we for a while think sit back and analyze … Nobody including us do not want to hear complaints … unless we are complainers.. too ….

By complaining we are not only spreading negative thoughts to the other person..  and also we are worsening our situation by consciously thinking more about it.. That is spreading the negative energy around us….  

Can we not make a conscious effort to talk only positive things so that we can make our environment also filled with the positive energy … that increase our potential and also the fact that we are improving the audience’s mind set also by forcing to make him look at only positive thoughts … 

Just give this a try .. and see how the world around us can become beautiful …….

Cheeriooo…….

Times of India Drives !!! The Country

 

People are yet to forget the Ad created by Times group ….. ” India Poised “ with Amitabh Bachchan….. that great thounderous voice which pulsated the hearts of youth India….

TOI  has  come up with the next best Ad campaign with none other than king Khan to voice   ” Lead India “   … to enthrall the youth… and make them spring into action …

Rest is to Wait.. and Watch the respones … of ……. Responsible Citizens…..

Cheeriooo 

Can marriages survive infidelity?? One that is history too!!

People marry for various reasons … But can the marriage strengthen the realtionship or does it provide an platform to dig into the human nature of the partners or even the past to draw a curtain ……..on existing good  Life! …… Sad! Yeah….

Its always right for a girl to confess that she was having affair before wedding they feel that they are being angels of honesty in the act… but on the same score can they really accept the fact that even men could have had affirs? in the same past..

More so bcoz for a man affair is an impule buy… an easy sexual oppurtunity too good to pass up.. a woman may weigh the consequences .. thus a confesssion of infidelity can be a too scary .. it can bring the devil out of a wife .. as she feels the infidelity is a kind of rejection to them..only!!

Most of the times straying out of marriage need not be for sex .. or  wife… It can be her nagging sense of insecurity.. and constant appeal for assuring the love is always there ..can get stiffling too.. Ironically most of the couples have accepted the fact that the heated arguments always end up in passionate Sex.. but it can stimulate lot of withdrawal symptoms .. 

Though men  do not look around for any newer pastures….. you end up being nice to a listening ear , compassionate person.. who gives what men always want .. admiration.. to  everything they do!!.. good ..intelligent.. great in bed.. nice company .. are all the well accepted norms  a man would want to hear….  All this without an ounce of commitment…… for any kind of relation..but believe me they get it too.. loads of them

All they can end up saying is  ” I got Carried away!! “  “I was trying to runaway from an imaginary problem to end up here!! “  Nice to hear ??.. Men are too good at saying …….. ‘ why can’t she see I need her??”………. I come home to Good Hug and Hot meal.. Followed by hot meat ….. I do not want to change my lifestyle for her…….. I feel my life’s getting slotted into hers.. Common quotes??? Huh??…………….. “Men need to be applauded for what they’re bringing to the relationship, whether it’s sexually, romantically or financially,”

 ”Often affairs are the angry response of the person not getting what he legitimately wants and needs from the marriage and feeling as if his partner just refused to give it,”……. How can we solve it???Big question??

Simple answer BeOpen .. Be honest… Ask … Don’t assume.. Be compassionate.. try and understand… give it Time.. and more so do not hate!!!

Cheerio………..

A girl & her Insecurity!!

Just another prattle of an Idle mind….A little story that goes with love and relation…..

There is this Boy who is out of home this weekend on a personal/professional  work.  Girl is pretty much aware of the situation, it is the work that pulls him to go out on these trips but riduculously she starts feeling insecure .

Specially when the girl never meets him over the week not having him around in the weekend should not be making any difference Ideally!! But the fact that both seem to keep weekends busy themselves brings a large disconnect between them for quite sometime, probably.  Best part is Girl is more bothered on these issues than the guy!! Not a big wonder   rgt?

There is always talk about things getting better.. with more expectations added up … everytime .. nothing turned in to miracle…So it  was obvious that they weren’t going to be getting together.

 She calls him tells she is finding it difficult to accept that they are not meeting and tht she gets this wierd idea that he does not want spend time with her… He assures her that no such thing infact he wishes to spend time nad at the last minute both plan elsewhere!! She feels he is right & tells him everything is alright now!! She fels good!!

It’s Difficult for the Girl to hide all those girly feelings…. insecurities…. But nature ??? Girl is a Girl … & one can not keep acting to be sane when it is actually not so…..She always feels he does not know what bothers her, or that she is giving this relation too much of space.. or she even thinks the relation is existing only because of her…there is kind of no fire in the relation… She feels the boy is immersed in his own sea of worries…. no time for her!!

He does not make an attempt to call her and Y not! he had his stuff going great … but the girl has this butterflies in the stomach and is sure that something is clearly missing….. 

 But Now Giril is a girl as I said !! Can We really help her????

Thts another musing….

New words!! Can not create new world !!

 

 

Vocabulary can expand limitlessly as it is just another expression of the mankind…. Which of course is growing beyond anybodies imagination [ I meant the population]

But then if one has to be happy with the coinage like “ bangalored”…. I am surprised…Read all about the new verb here!!

 I recently happen to read one more word that was I am really not sure was the brainchild of the journalism… ”Frinitis” …Does it ring any bell?? Believe me when I read this for the first time the only word that went in across my grey cells is the  “Praying Mantis ” [ I  was a biology buff during my school days  J ] Details here 

Now you must be waiting to know the meaning of the word before my opine on it..Details????

Frinitis : Friday Night Fever: Friday night is the time to hang your boots and go wild / paint the town RED..The youth are at the mercy of numerous addictions – gaming, shopping, the much evident mobile fixation …Now the latest is a virus called Frinitis causing “Friday night Fever”.

Are we really growing…….??? Really!!

Marketing ….. Going Sky High!!

Today’s marketing world is enough competitive and creative that I almost felt they are Competing with the Nazcan Art  Lines !!

 

I know you must be raising brows as to what I am trying to say …and what is this picture all about

Nazcan lines are giant art lines or motif found on the ground that could be seen by the “Eye in the sky”… so called response to the believed “EYE Of The GOD” in the sky..

Could be only viewed either by a hot air balloon or a plane !! Details read here …

Now you are atleast aware of what I am trying to refer to!! But the competing art?? Modren day ad campigns?? No doubt about it!! Just look at the awesome picture below..

I have taken it from 15 june 2007 .. Times of India  Bangalore edition…. e-paper could not wait to capture it for myself…..A giant silhoutte of a naked pole dancer painted on to a field which is seen beneath the flight path of southeren England’s Gatwick airport All the airline passengers can have a great time peak view of this 100,00 Sq.Ft.  advertisement..

Boss .. Hats off to the adagency and to the creative director of this piece of work!! Take a bow Guys.. You have proven the ” Higher realms of marketing Kingdom”… Sky is not the Limit YET!!

Fear of Losing… Brings the Monster in you…………….!!

Fear … !!   Phobia.…!!!!.. Terror…!! Horror…!! Panic..!! GRrrrrrrrr…..the very basic Primal ghost that is all around us!!

Are we sure?? …….No ……..  Fear is what lies WITHIN..… Not around!! So much Deep buried inside that to uproot the very existance of it becomes a life’s Challenge!!

Fear can range in various intencities.. like….. mild caution.. to……extreme paranoia….Y do we fear something..  What are the effects on life’s smooth ride??? Fear can cause helluva havoc on anybodies life!!

It’s more a trouble when you speak with respect to relationships….. Lets see what this is all about!!

Anxiety is always fine and can be controlled infact would vanish automatically within few days….Like a New job… Marriage!…… even child birth… can give loads of anxious moments but once you test the waters you get used to the idea and life becomes smooth again……

Fear of known… is again kinda natural….. .. you know the effect of fire so when there is an outbreak you are afraid of it is just so common… Fear of water…you must have fallen into water sometimes in the past and must have been uncomfortablwe with the breathlessness you experience .. can also be easily explained and elimineted!! …This fear is response to actual danger and not envisaged!!

“Every time you win, it diminishes the fear a little bit. You never really cancel the fear of losing; you keep challenging it.“

Fear of Unknown… and fear of the Imaginary … are the darkest deamons to humanity and can be destructive in the relationships….. 

“Once bitten twice shy!!” A small bad patch in life can make you so over-cautious that you stop enjoying the moments of life and begin seeing the unknown ghosts. in fact you start digging for something bad to happen.. and belive me human mind’s thinking power is so strong that we create the deamons that we Fear!!

“Only your mind can produce fear.“

Human mind can visualise so powerfully that we can think of bad and that becomes worse than ever “Fear is a disease that eats away at logic and makes man inhuman.” …

Because you fear you may lose somebody you hold fast to them so much more strongly that you forget that you can end up suffocating the other person… you may nag them to death..!!and more than obviously! the person may want to tear apart from you or even he keeps off from you for short periods of time and that will be again a big concern to you you try and get much more out of the relationship withut even realising the staleness that has already started creeping in and a big series of chain reactions and vicious circle of habits that bring the unwanted death to the relationship. caused by nothing else but a small bad experience and the fear …..that was attached to it!!

Fear of Losing Someone in relation ship is another grave tangent to the epitome of fear…

When we have any kind of relationship  it becomes  habit forming!! than an nurturing aspect of Life!! So any thing that you start getting possescive you tend to bind all your emotional energies into it.. and that is when you start getting the fear of losing it..

Believe me if Insurence companies could have Policies for human relations the would make the highest revenues!! That is the level of insecurity you can find among the relationships and more so because of the fear of losing it!!!

Fear can be so destructive that you may end up saying that what is not mine can not be happy!! and you intentionally hurt the person!! now that is fear psychosis.. a dangerous state a human can slip into .. can be as bad as Suicidal….

 Hmmm.. thts where I want to stop !!!

“It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live.”

Communication !!! meaning…get verbal

Why are we not able to talk decently ….Why do people can not communicate in proper manner  … Communication  was supposed to be  Limelight in the  path to evolution rgt??? 

It was Primal sounds in the jungle to start with….. and  then it became the symbolic representation of everything and still people could not verbally communicate … sign language mixed with the body emoting its feeling was all about communication and they were good at it to !!!

 I always think I need to Google around and find when and how did the vocabulary evolve but …J….never been able to do so… Do not think !!…   It is important probably…..now that we do have vocabulary and we do understand Body language better……….. How good are we communicating ??.. 

There is an old saying in Kannada …. “ The  person who knows to talk can deter fight ”   How many of us can do it??  Especially in Relationships…. Ironically you do not find one relation that is devoid of verbal altercations!! Why??? Why is it so????  

I guess fight is due to miscommunication or communication gaps more so than misunderstanding…. Well now ….Irony again is Understand can happen only when the communication is proper rgt??  We tend to communicate unintended things more so than what had to be said……Why  does that happen its not that we have language barrier …more So people who have actual language problems do try to elaborate and be sure of proper communication or even when people do have physical inabilities try sign language better and you can see their complete effort that goes into proper communication ….  

Then why are educated lot into bickering ???? Can we not use the education as a strong pillar to a better communication than to send wrong messages that can ignite a massive fight … that can ruin the relations……………..